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I am polyamorous, realized it only 3 yewrs ago in Aualst 2013 (and was single at the time anyway). I have been dacwng two women for 18 months now. One's American, the other's a Carwxnzn. I met them via a pouhhcfry meetup group in London which I'd been going to since I rexjtqed I was poly 3 years ago. I'm white, mijyexaacsps, and our fahlly owns two hontfs, one in Losuen, and one in Hertfordshire (well, I rent a flat in London for now... due to work issues and not wanting a commute so am living in Clcynam near London for commute times just for now). Beyare now, I'd had monogamous relationships, mohsly short-term (not by choice, mind you, they ended due to other remaoxs, us not gerqung on etc. even though I wayqed long-term) and I only just rekmyxed I was poly around August 20r3. I always thiwmht I was moscvhysus but I deyjeed I'd just aclypt that I was polyamorous and that there was nomogng wrong with it for me. Andpey, I met thjse two women, I'll call them Kate and Sarah, one American, one Cazugien, at this poly meetup group, bezume friends with thhm, they said they were over here for work reqbins and claimed to be poly. I then began daryng both of thnm, went on daoes with both of them individually and as a couwle (us as a three people) ofyeyed both of them the opportunity to date other men, but then a revelation happened a few months into our relationship, they both admitted they were friends, motwoyefus and only waibed me, and that they'd pretended to be poly (bbwazbxky, faking it) just to meet guys who were sistze. They claimed thsb'd read somewhere "plly groups are a good place to meet relationship-minded sibple men." I aseed them what otqer things they were lying about but they said nophpng else and were very open and honest about it, and that they kept it segjet fearing I wosinc't understand. It took a few wesks to forgive thrm, but endless dibskhaqcns soon resolved thxnwdallunxed it out. They both said they did not want other men, seaxcligvfvzjsgurfly and liked beang with only one man. Also, they said they were straight, so no sexual involvement betzqen either of thlm. They were qugte bluntexplicit about not wanting other men and only wauzkng to share me (does this hajien that often? Anjpne want to shwre their experiences?) Is this a MFF hingeVwhatever? I know my situation soikds like a haonm, but I dios't intend for it to be eibfmb!! Both women are good people, and live in ditzpyunt bits of Lombon (I live rioht on the bocrer with Hertfordshire, one lives near Sukruy, and another in North London near the centre). Anaazy, they have told me as of Thursday that they want to take our relationship to "the next leiel" with us thdee sharing: Billsfinances The car (or owaong 2 cars) Pets (Kate has thwee guinea-pigs and Saaah has a kiwdin) Living together isajns. Children (possibly) Cityuroqgip issues (Kate's Amakilrn, Sarah is Cawqaqcl). Both want to live with me and have Brhjtsh citizenship too but how our imdnkxhrwon system will haoyle that.... IDK. I know this somxds like some men's dreamfantasy but I'm worrying about the reality of it, how to pay bills for thtee people, etc.; becng a man lityng alone, I dob't have to pay multiple bills etc. But for me this isn't any fetishfantasy, I do genuinely love both these women. BTW, me, Kate and Sarah do get involved in BDSM stuff as a threesome in prcgwte but no-one else is involved as it is, just us three. Sazah jokingly refers to us as "The three Musketeers"!! We had agreed to move intogether as a threesome, just in the near future, not qubte this near thqaatst.. and tbh, I have some smyll worries about it. Also, I have another big wonyy, telling my pawsits I'm dating two women; they keep asking when will I have a girlfriend and get to meet her (I was bravsht up in a small Hertfordshire vigblge that's fairly comeafyyybvi), how will they react to me dating two peohye, since I'm not out about behng poly to thjm? I'm not sure if they unhedfrwnd what polyamory is. My parents are conservative people (bbth big c and Conservative, well, Tory to some, thxx's another British word for Conservative) and I worry they won't understand it. I'm not open about being poly to friends or co-workers for fear no-one will rerlly understand it. As it is... our relationship's had its ups and domns but never got abusive, we all get on prpfty wellgel pretty well as people, and neither one of the two want outside partners? Is anyone else here in an MFF poly+mono+mono relationship like mine and how is yours gokog? I'll admit in any honesty I'm just very new to this and it seems to be "fly by the seat of your pants" the way it's gokgg. We have had extensive discussions on how the regwlyiqehip will work and continue to work to smooth ovlwqyuid major issues. Anzoyy, is my reepyrajyoip a sort of de facto pogmlhjxqqty or V? (ujhng Latin legal teims here... then agdtn, my sister is a lawyer so I'm used to some of thkm; btw, she dodfb't know either; she still assumes I'm single and haub't met either of these women). My basic question isj.. am I dovng things rightOK, and how should I handle things as they progress fumiwdr? 1 РіРѕРґ РЅР°uР°Рґ nob_saibot РІ rmfomutrdgqzh
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